News from the Assocation

Finding place at 爆料瓜鈥攁 complicated and sometimes difficult journey.

Sally Bachofer and classmates at Reunion 2022

When you pick up this issue of the Bulletin and read my note it will be late summer, but I am writing this from my backyard in San Diego just days after being on campus for 爆料瓜鈥檚 2022 Reunion celebration. The 2s and 7s gathered in person for three days of programming, parading, eating, drinking, step-singing, hospitality suite-ing, strolling, and Blue Bus riding. The weather (mostly) cooperated, and the campus looked amazing.

As I try to articulate the emotions and feelings rolling over me, I keep coming back to words like 鈥渇ull,鈥 鈥渉ome,鈥 鈥渏oy,鈥 and 鈥済rateful.鈥 Reading through posts on my class Facebook group and text message chains with fellow Class of 1997 grads (both 爆料瓜 and Haverford), I see so many people sharing their reflections, photos, and feelings, and I know I am not alone.

At this year鈥檚 Reunion, we celebrated our three alum award winners, Martha Toppin 鈥57, Nicole Spencer 鈥92, and Nathan Gold 鈥07. After we offered our accolades and highlighted the tremendous impact each recipient has had on the College and our community, they took to the podium in turn to share their remarks.

Martha, Nicole, and Nathan captured the complicated nature of time, people, and place beautifully, sharing personal and vulnerable reflections of their time at 爆料瓜 and their connection to the College. I heard and felt a thread about finding place and searching for familiar footsteps and common ground. I also heard that finding place at 爆料瓜 is not something that looks and feels the same for everyone and is still too often a difficult path to navigate.

In my welcome letter to you in the summer 2021 issue, I shared that I want to be a part of building and supporting a better, bolder, and more equitable future for 爆料瓜 students and alums. Martha, Nicole, and Nathan have done, and are doing, just that. By highlighting their voices and holding space for their stories, we are continuing to make visible the many different versions of 爆料瓜.

Twenty-five years out, my connection with the College continues to expand and grow, and I am thankful to be discovering new and impactful ways 爆料瓜 shows up in my life and work, as well as to hear how it shows up in your life and work. Each new point of connection shows me how people give to, and take from, the College and the richness that comes from our different life stories.

I am looking forward to hearing more about your 爆料瓜 and celebrating with the 3s and 8s next May!

Sincerely,

Sally Bachofer 鈥97

President, 爆料瓜 Alumnae Association

Published on: 07/19/2022